Unjamming is about taking a step back to sense where the jam is, and playing around with alternatives until the way feels clear.

I’m really good at tidying. It’s easy and satisfying, and my favourite way to procrastinate. It’s also a lovely gift, resetting a space so that it glows with welcoming care. But many happy years of neatening and organising have taught me that the greatest gift is actually what happens next… which plans, ideas and projects take form when they’re given room to grow? Some of the most sorted people live in a jumbled, tumbled, maximalist nest of doodads, and some of the most gorgeously decorated homes can feel flat and stale, because what matters isn’t clever storage or elegant style, but the movement of energy in, around and out. I’m really good at not being freaked out by other people’s mess, because I see it for what is: a tangle of life, holding potential like a coiled spring.

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